The Adults talk comment IMO was pretty cheap, but I digress on that point. I would not have approved your post if you were not allowed to express your opinion... That being said, things are not permitted to degrade into ** contests.. When you express your opinion, do not be surprised if others with opposing opinions state theirs as well. Part of the right of being able to express your opinion is that you have to deal with others expressing theirs as well. The key thing for my part of it is that everyone manages to do it in a civil manner. Should that not happen is when we have to step in, frankly I have far better things to do so when I have to step in I tend to get cranky.
As to my two cents on the thing, if people were less inclined to complain about things not moving at a pace which they wish it to and instead offer assistance at least there would be a ground to stand on. To my view, to complain that I am not moving at a satisfactory pace to someone else's desires, thus making them disappointed weighs very little on me, given that I can think of many other things I can do with my time. Compare that to someone coming in and saying "you guys have been going at this for a while, perhaps I can offer some help, here's the things I can do and here's some examples, perhaps I can lend a hand and help it along?" The latter would tend to make me more inspired, the former, well that's kind of a given.
Play nice everyone and please keep it civil. Belittling and berating one another just makes me cranky.